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Why Do Most Nigerian Girls Have This Mentality?

Why do ‘most’ Nigerian girls have this inane mentality that they don’t need to struggle or achieve things in life if after all, they’ll get married. What sorta useless mentality is this? No man should marry a broke or jobless lady!

Nb: opinions contrary to the op’s should be aired with civility or be met with “fire and fury”.

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Tomi
Tomi
7 months ago

Wetin we go do

Na so them train them…..

Marriage na there life investment

Mandy
Mandy
7 months ago

You can’t blame them though. The patriarchal status of man gives them the belief a man can take care of everything without them contributing a dime.

Dinma
Dinma
7 months ago

This phenomenon has occurred for a long time now. Women have entitlement mentality starting as a teenager her mom tells her how that she will marry and her Husband provides for her. She also observes her parents. The Most intoxicating is when she begins to grow older she gets an Overdose of attention. Even if she coughs a guy will tell her she has the most Beautiful cough in the world . Guys + sugar daddies provide her with whatever she needs coupled with Narcissistic attention she gets from 5000 friends on fb, countless msg on WhatsApp and unfettered attention… Read more »

Makinwa
Makinwa
7 months ago

The excess attention gets to their head leading to what is referred to as female narcissism. She gets to a point she feels entitled. She sees men as “success objects” and as such begins broke shaming guys in their early 20s who are broke.

She now roll with men in their 30s and 40s( and guys in 20s that are loaded).

Till her head clears when she is in her 30s

Seun
Seun
7 months ago

some Nigerian ladies are beginning to dream high and also earn much more than guys oh. You see this social media and eCommerce of a thing, they are helping Nigerian ladies a lot now, most of them earn far more than oil company workers today from the comfort of their bedrooms or school hostels. You have a point, in this time and era, I will advice any sensible young man to marry an ambitious lady with visible goals and plans of becoming successful in a field she chose. Don’t marry a mentally, physically and emotionally lazy and jobless lady if… Read more »

Honeydenz
Honeydenz
7 months ago

It has been so for a long time, it’s not new.

That’s the mentality our Nigerian Mother tutor them on daily.
Naturally I don’t see anything wrong with it.

The part that annoys me is that the same Nigerian Mothers don’t lecture them about good characters and virtues anymore, they allow them to foolishly copy every bad attitudes from the westerners calling it civilization, forgetting that what works for Musa won’t work for Tunde.

Everyone is running away from our old cultures and accepting the western cultures because our Nigerian/African cultures are very disciplinary and full of good morals.

Tunde
Tunde
7 months ago

Some years back I dated a gal I was serious with and I asked her wot will b her role wen we get married and she said her only duty as a wife is to open her legs whenever her husband needs sex. This is The same gal that wanted us to have a 5million naira wedding and she won’t bring a kobo

umaru
umaru
7 months ago

That is the mentality that is causing problem in most home today. They think that as far as they can offer their husband sex the man will just be providing everything she and her parent need

EricSmallz
EricSmallz
7 months ago

With the exception of my babe, she can hustle for Africa, very independent minded, she is not asking me for anything, always want to spend her money to do everything at home.
The thing even dey pain me say she no dey ask me for anything

Frank22
Frank22
7 months ago

I’m tired of these lazy ass women that want their weave, makeup, nails, newest phone funded by SOMEONE, they don’t care who even, just some poor sucker. And in exchange for some most likely unclean/over used pussy.
What are you bringing to the table? Please tell us all. Pussy and what else? No intelligent conversation, no forward movement, nothing.
I’d rather stay single.

What do you think?