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Why Do I Keep Meeting These Kind Of Ladies?

I don’t know why am always meeting materialistic ladiesAlthough I didn’t do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh

Be likeI need money to make hair 3k…I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities that belongs to her father on my head.I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can’t die naI always admire my friends babe. She is so content. I mean I can’t even describe how cool she is.She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one Okay this happened to me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn’t dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mindStarted chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It’s really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can’t phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine  Cos hell yeah I am ( don’t ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk Money isn’t my issue, but I don’t just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.Thanks

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Emma
Emma
8 months ago

How about you bring yourself down when you want to woo a girl. This could be the issue

Softball
Softball
8 months ago

Hmmm op its not your fault..

That your friend is lucky because a larger percentage of ladies in Nigeria are only after the money.

Uncle G
Uncle G
8 months ago

What nonsense are These guys saying? How does how he carries himself translate to girls disturbing him for money. Are y’all sick or something?. The main problem is there u won’t talk about it…… Nigerian girls should work and try to be independent. Stop waiting for a man to do things for you no matter how little.

Kingxway
Kingxway
8 months ago

Reminds me when I chyked one babe like that. The next thing was demanding upon demanding. Mehn! I systemically dodged it. Happy I didn’t ‘t fall for that

Franky
Franky
8 months ago

There is beauty, a whole lot without makeups and artificial hair. Search for such girls am sure their demands won’t be as much

Nokwocha
Nokwocha
8 months ago

Had same issue as a very young man.I would sell off gadgets my elder brother send down from abroad to please my ex girlfriends. cheesy cheesy. Theres one sw lady that deals with jewelries and Turkey ladies inner wear in CMS patronise often to change my ex girlfriends pants those days grin grin grin.Till the last gf messed me up. Well, I decided to give myself a BIG break and concentrated on my business and career for years. Yes! No gf and no intimacy. embarassed :- Until I noticed a friend’s sidechick. Very nice girl men. She would cook and… Read more »

Last edited 8 months ago by Nokwocha
Dalaman
Dalaman
8 months ago

As the saying goes. The day you ask a Nigerian lady out is the day you start owing her money.

Suleman
Suleman
8 months ago

If you have a job in Nigeria at 26, uncle, you no suffer.

As for the girls you date, they are simply a reflection of who you are.

Ypu people need to stop disturbing us about these gold diggers you encounter on a daily basis, na wetin you find enter market na im you go see.

There are good girls o, but those ones do not do waka waka, they don’t live the life you guys expect and you don’t see them starting threads on how they can’t find good guys.

Livcus
Livcus
8 months ago

Your first impression says it all.give the impression of an all sufficient guy and you may have a liability on your hands.Also try not to rush a new friendship, take your time and build it gradually over time.good luck next time

Macphilip
Macphilip
8 months ago

That was how I was chatting with an old female friend on FB, next thing I would hear is “can I get like 50k”
Anyway OP, 95% Nigerian girls are like that,
there is serious hunger in the Land

Cythian
Cythian
8 months ago

It’s normal op, it’s not easy to be a female in Nigeria, esp when the parents are struggling.

Tochi
Tochi
8 months ago

Go MFM or deeper Life, you’ll get good girl with zero or less demands

Smatty44
Smatty44
8 months ago

The problem here is; you show too much interest in girls… You’re not different from the girls you meet. Try to limit this.

Good girls still exists. A bad girl could actually change for good depending how much affection you show to her!

You’re really desperate I can feel it

Iconic
Iconic
8 months ago

Lol…Finally found someone in the same quagmire as I am. I thought I was alone in this

Oga@top
Oga@top
8 months ago

E be like say na igbo girls u too dey meet, na dem dey materialistic pass. Sw babes no dey give stress, suya and malt, she fit follow u go house

Nkemdi
Nkemdi
8 months ago

Go for professional women and federal civil servants, look out for church girls and women in force and paramilitary. For a business woman don’t go for the one still serving, in the quest of looking for an independent woman, don’t be deceived by those who doesn’t ask from you, most do have sugar daddies as major sponsors so your stipend may mean nothing for them as they may want you for marriage but that won’t stop them from being promiscuous. But your eyes down you will see, don’t create an avenue for trade by barter I.e no sex demand in… Read more »

Techy
Techy
8 months ago

That is because most nigerian girls are hungry.the recession is not funny at all.

i don’t even blame most of them because there is no job,and the little ones around they pay so low expecially to girls

for example some girls are paid as low as 10k.

after transportation how much will remain.

That is why they are always loking for men to take care of them.

Anybody that is from a rich home,know no weting GOD do for am.

Jackson
Jackson
8 months ago

Brother don’t put pressure by Yourself on Yourself concerning serious relationship o, fine You Have to Be serious, It’s Good Thing to do..but don’t sweat it Brother. When The right time comes The person That will compliment You will come….now back to The mata on ground…You See Bro most Nigeria girls are problem carriers so they re looking for problem solvers (guys) to Help Them… Hence once You ask Them out The next Thing for those ones among Them wey they no born with shame And self respect And esteem will immediately throw You The question of “Please can You… Read more »

Cuppa
Cuppa
8 months ago

if u know u wanna marry beautifu gurl u better show wat u av. they ‘re luxury. I for like drag adesua wit banky Na,but my pocket no gree. ogbeni u beta use wat u av to get wat u nid. love is directly proportional to love now

Tititi
Tititi
8 months ago

Obviously, you are still broke. Go hustle more brother, you will attract the right babe. At this point of your life, you need money not babes. There is no girl that does not need the support of her man and the truth is it will come more than expected. You are not there yet and remove this thought that there is one girl that will spend on you.

From survey, broke niggaz attract “materialistic” ladies whilst rich nigga attract the independent. Likes attract likes… Its nature, that’s how it works

What do you think?