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What are the really small things that tell a lot about a person's psychology and personality?

  1. The speed of eating — fast eaters are ambitious, go-getters and impatient. Slow eaters are one for patience and savoring life’s pleasure.
  2. Response to insults — people pleaser if they accept every insult, insecure if they get super-defensive, confident if they joke around it.
  3. Ability to express emotions — people who can’t talk about their feelings have an unhealed traumatic history.
  4. Showing anxiety physically — people who do repetitive behaviors like biting-nails, tapping foot tend to be perfectionists.
  5. Behavior towards better people — if they talk with the contempt towards someone better than them, they feel threatened and jealous.
  6. Who they talk about in a conversation — low self-worth if they deflect questions about themselves. Narcissistic if they can’t stop talking about themselves.
  7. Ability to take a joke — the easier it is to offend them the bigger the ego and lower the self-esteem they have.
  8. When pointing out their mistakes — big ego if they get offensive, victim mentality if they blame it on others, humble if they can accept.

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Atikulated
4 months ago

The way a person treats those with less power than them is probably the best judge of character you can use. Could be anything from how they treat a waiter that made a mistake to whether they think people with less money are less deserving of respect. People who only show respect to those who have power over them are generally human garbage

Daniel
4 months ago

If someone you’ve just met tells you their whole life story, run.

Emmy
4 months ago

The hand shake. A man with a weak handshake is no man of integrity.

Temple32
4 months ago

The way they drive, how courteous they are to others on the road usually translates into their social personality.

vincent
4 months ago

Eye contact. Those who can’t maintain it are prone to being shy and less confident type.

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