What actually happens on first night of marriage?

On my very first night my wife was feeling very shy because of many relatives at home at that time. But her friends forced  her to move inside the room where I was waiting for her. After entering in the room both of us makes some discussion of maximum 2 minutes(in this 2 minutes we only asks each other questions “ are you comfortable “, ” how are you “, ” did you had dinner till now, are you tired etc) then after that we started holding hands of each other, starts coming close, then we kissed. We then enjoyed our night.